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Data Stream - July 2025: Sweet Heat, Big Shifts
Bees, superheroes, AI, and class struggle.
Jul 28
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Xavi Benjamin
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What We Build When We're Ready
I knew what I wanted, and I'm choosing it.
Jul 23
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Xavi Benjamin
4
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June 2025
Subject to Change
Clarity, stability, and maybe even love—all in one month.
Jun 16
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Xavi Benjamin
4
April 2025
Help! I Can’t Tell If Our Politics Are a Dealbreaker
When values clash, is love still a good enough reason to stay?
Apr 30
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Xavi Benjamin
3
Fifteen Years Later, I’m Finally Going to College
What higher education looks like when you’re not 18 anymore.
Apr 23
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Xavi Benjamin
5
March 2025
The Middle of the Sandwich
How my best birthday yet helped me trust the life I’m building.
Mar 31
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Xavi Benjamin
4
This Time, I’m Not Afraid
Polyamory, growth, and learning to trust what’s in front of me.
Mar 14
4
Help! I Ditched Religion, But Guilt Won't Let Me Enjoy Sex
Unlearning purity culture is not a switch you flip, it's an ongoing conscious process.
Mar 6
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Xavi Benjamin
2
February 2025
Love in the Time of Algorithms
The absurdity and alienation of modern dating.
Feb 25
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Xavi Benjamin
4
Help! Why Did You Trade God for Marxism?
I stopped waiting for paradise—now I fight to build it.
Feb 20
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Xavi Benjamin
11
I Choose Love, Again and Again
On marriage, friendship, and the love that's still to come.
Feb 14
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Xavi Benjamin
4
A Letter to What We Were
An early mix of my latest song, You, and the letter I never sent.
Feb 9
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Xavi Benjamin
2
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